Resolve with me, with God's help, to:
- Be more suspicious of yourself than your spouse. In humility, suspect yourself.
- Look in first – the log before the speck. In integrity, inspect yourself.
- Embrace the fact that your spouse doesn’t ever make (tempt? yes!; cause? no!) you sin. You should also embrace the fact that he/she is a divinely chosen tool to heat up the sludge in your soul so you can be purged and purified and grow in grace. How loving of God?! (please don't read that in a mocking tone!)
- Be more aware of/Focus more on God’s undeserved grace than your spouse’s shortcomings and failures.