McGarvey Christmas Letter

Dear Family & Friends,

Warm greetings from The First State! This year, we decided to employ the help of the kids to write ye ol’ Christmas letter. We figured the best way to do so would be to put together a questionnaire of sorts. Here’s the fruit of the interview labor:

Hannah (11 years – 6^th grade):

Nickname(s): Hans, Sis, Sissy

Favorite things to do: Sing and play basketball
Favorite subject: Gym!

Least Favorite subject: Grammar

Favorite foods: Crepes, steak, mac & cheese, peaches, pickles, peppermint ice cream, pound cake

Least favorite food: Meatballs

Favorite color: Green!

Favorite movie: Rudy

Favorite musical artist: Sara Groves

Favorite vacation: MI (Grand Haven in the summer)

Favorite restaurants: Outback & Giordano’s

Favorite song: Setting Up the Pins (by Sara Groves)

Favorite date with daddy: Rock climbing

Favorite/most valuable possession: I don’t have one

What you like to do in your spare time? play knockout, make cards, bake with mom, draw

What would people be surprised to know about you? I don’t like to eat breakfast. I haven’t liked the color pink for the last few years…but, it’s starting to grow on me. I like to act.

What do you want to be when you grow up? A teacher (probably elementary school)

What are you future plans? To be the coolest mother of 5 children

What do you want for Christmas? I don’t know. Mac & cheese boxes. A lot of things green.

Sam (9 years old – 4^th grade):

Nicknames: Sambo, Dude, Buddy

Favorite foods: pizza, ketchup, pancakes, ketchup, Sunday roast & potatoes , ketchup

Least favorite food: Well, I don’t really know. There are several different foods that I haven’t tried. So, I don’t know.

Favorite books: Magic Tree House, By The Great Horn Spoon, The Phantom Tollbooth, Keeping Holiday, Hardy Boys, The Bible

Favorite movie: Honey I Shrunk the Kids

Favorite sport: Football

Favorite team(s): Bears and Steelers

Favorite subject in school: Recess! Seriously…lunch!

Least favorite subject in school: I don’t have one.

Favorite music/artist/song: Rap / Lacrae / Don’t Waste YourLife

Favorite vacation: IL – because most of my family is there and I moved here from there…so it also brings back a lot of memories…it also has The Bean.

Favorite restaurant: Red Robin

Favorite flower: Lily – because she’s my sister.

Favorite dude time with daddy: When we went to the go kart place together in MI

Favorite/most valuable possession: Lowrider – my pellet gun

Favorite joke: Here’s one I really like: Doctor, doctor. My eyesight is getting worse! You’re absolutely right. This is the post office.

Favorite Bible story: The Crucifixion, Resurrection, and Ascension. (Why?) Who wouldn’t like that?! One, because of the power!

What would people be surprised to know about you? I don’t feel good when I am called, “Sam I am.” I’m a sort of a picky eater. I like to dance.

What do you want for Christmas? The Black Pearl (a Lego pirate ship), and a sword

Future plans? I want to be in heaven (as in 10,000 years from now).

What do you want to be when you grow up? I don’t know. That’s a long time away. Whatever God wants me to be.

Some interesting facts about yourself: I’m a big ham.

What you like to do in your spare time: Dress up like a pirate, read pirate books, read joke books, plain old read, play with Legos, shoot Airsoft guns and pellet rifles

Coolest thing you know about God: He doesn’t have to go to sleep!

Lily (7 – 1^st grade):

Nickname(s): Lils, Beaner

Favorite things to do: Eat, play dolls with Hannah, ride my bike
Favorite foods: Pizza bread, strawberries, jello cake, peppermint ice cream

Least favorite food: Pizza with sauce (scrape the sauce off, replace the cheese, and she’s happily eat it!)
Favorite subject: Math
Least favorite subject: Geography – we have to stand up and say lots of things! And I get bored. I don’t like doing that.

Favorite books: My Father's Dragon, The Princess and the Kiss

Favorite movie: Tangled

Favorite sports team(s): Bears & Bulls – I’m on Papa’s side, Daddy. (Ouch!) … And maybe some Steelers. (Phew!)

Favorite music/artist/song: He’s Alive & Ma Ya Hi

Favorite vacation: Going to Ama and Papa’s and going to MI and Nana’s (and Jason’s house)

Favorite restaurant: Charcoal Pit and Red Robin

Favorite flower: A white lily, and lily of the valley...and snap dragons!

Favorite daddy/daughter date: Berry Yummi & to the park

Favorite/most valuable possession: Elizabeth Mae McGarvey, my (American Girl) doll

Favorite Bible story: David and Goliath

High from this past year: when baby Benjamin was born!

Low of this past year: I don’t have a low!

What would people be surprised to know about you? I can run faster than lots of people and pick people up on MY BACK!

What do you want for Christmas? A dog (Malanie and Mia have one!), I don’t know! American Girl things

Future plans? Have a castle. I want invisible stairs and I push a button and I put these glasses on and I can see the stairs and climb them. And there’s a giant bed. And you can jump on it and do anything you want. And you can get food without asking. And there is any food you want in the whole wide world. Like Jello cakes, ice cream, apple mountains, strawberry mountains, a chocolate kiss hill, a big lion made out of ice cream, and a buttered popcorn mountain.

What do you want to be when you grow up? I want to walk dogs and take care of people’s cats and dogs. Or, a teacher.

What you like to do in your spare time? play school with Jono

Coolest thing you know about God: He can do everything! He helps us! He died for our sins.

Jonathan (4 and a half! – valedictorian of the imaginary school in which his siblings regularly enroll him):

Nickname(s): Jono, Bubbalicious, Little man (though he informed us after Benjamin was born that this nickname no longer applies)

Favorite things to do: Play Legos – build Lego cars, do puzzles, ride my bike and scooters, play store with Lily, play school with Hannah and Lily, go to the store with mommy, go to Longwood Gardens, eat seaweed snacks and play with Daniel Ho, tackle daddy, climb in bed in the morning with mommy and kiss baby Ben

Favorite food: mac and cheese, pizza, Daddy’s Friday afternoon leftover surprise (especially when he arranges it like a face on the plate!), ranch dressing, french fries, hot dogs (cut up), pizza bread, brownies and ice cream, and chocolate pie

Least favorite food: olives – black and green; hot salsa (but I like the normal salsa that is NOT hot!)

Favorite drink: apple cider

Favorite books: Mike Mulligan and the Steam Shovel

Favorite movie: Cars 2

Favorite sport: Steelers!

Favorite subject in school: I don’t have school.

Favorite music/artist: Josh Garrels (good taste for a 4 year old, eh?)

Favorite vacation: Michigan (Grand Haven)

Favorite restaurant: Chili’s! & Mickey D’s!

Favorite game? Jenga, puzzles, Busytown

Favorite dude time with daddy: Going to the wood park (there’s a park in MI where we vacation in the summer where all the playground equipment is made of wood)

Favorite/most valuable possession: My silky (i.e. his blue blanket)

Favorite Bible story: When Peter got caught in the water and Jesus picked him up!

Coolest thing you know about God: That he’s powerful! That he has the Bible!

What do you want for Christmas: Finn McMissile PJ’s

High of this past year: Being with Mommy all day – that’s my high

Low of this past year: My low is I have to nap

What would people be surprised to know about you? That I like to run errands with my mommy.

Future plans? Future?! That’s what no one has seen! (that’s really what he said!)

What do you want to be when you grow up? A police [sic]. (Why?) So I could stop people who are going fast on the road.

What you like to do in your spare time? What does that mean?

Benjamin (0 – born 10/26/11, 5:25pm, weighing 8lbs 9oz, spanning 21.5 inches):

Nickname(s): Ben, Benny, Super Cute (Jono’s nickname for him),

Favorite music/artist: mommy

Favorite restaurant: mommy

Favorite/most valuable possession: my Steelers binky

Favorite food: you guessed it, milk

Least favorite food: raw onions

Favorite books: Are You My Mother?

Favorite sport: Boxing. I have a mean right cross. Even more lethal is my patented nostril hook hook.

Most embarrassing moment of 2011: the day with that horrible yellow outfit – I finally had to blow out in it just to get it off me!
Favorite music/artist: Sam McGarvey, especially when he sings me Spanish lullabies (en Español, of course!)

High of this past year: When mommy’s milk came in!

Low of this past year: Can you say, “circumcision?” I shudder even to say the ‘c’ word.

What do you want for Christmas? Milk, more Steelers binkies, and a Terrible Towel burp cloth

Future plans? Sleep, eat, poop, repeat.

Some interesting facts about yourself: I can sleep soundly through junior high basketball games and home improvement projects with nail guns popping, and mitre saw a buzzin’.

As for mom & dad, we’ll make it quick. This thing is already way too long. We are happily married, happily overwhelmed with the task of parenting 5 precious little souls, and happy to be making our new house feel like home. Chris is thankful for the continued privilege of serving Bethel Baptist Church and Beth is steering clear of boredom as the mother of this growing and active brood.

Most of all, we are more thankful for Jesus today than ever before. He’s why we love this time of year! Where would we be (both now and for eternity), without his perfect life (the one we could not live), his death in our place (bearing the just penalty we deserve), his victorious resurrection from the grave (vindicating every claim he ever made), and every great and precious promise that he purchased for us on the cross! This good news of great joy is music to our ears! We long for it to be music to your ears as well...and the life-giving soundtrack to your days.

With much love,

The McGarveys

Firing On Your Foot

Imagine yourself taking a loaded gun, aiming it at your foot, and firing. That would be really dumb. Not only would it hurt, there would be all kinds of other inconvenient and painful fallout. First, an immediate trip to the ER. Who likes to waste time waiting in the ER? It would mean extra medical bills you don’t need. It would preclude most kinds of exercise for a time. Instead, there would likely be inconvenient, time-consuming, and painful rehab. It might affect your ability to take a shower for awhile. Working, walking, driving, sleeping, and all manner of other normal activities would be affected. 

Now, think of covetousness, or lust, as a loaded gun. When you toy around with, and especially when you buy the "greener grass" lies, you pull the trigger on yourself. You assault your joy. You do violence to contentment. You poison the present with a false future. And that has all kinds of other unhappy effects. You become more dissatisfied with the present, which makes the greener grass lies all the more appealing. And turning away from God as your portion to look for quick relief or satisfaction elsewhere always leads to dissatisfaction and regret and shame and grief. It’s a nasty, self-perpetuating, suffocating, life-sucking, joy-stealing, contentment-choking downward spiral.

Don't fire on your foot. Take aim instead at the soul-killing lies of covetousness and lust. Look up to God as your comfort and joy and refuge and satisfaction and treasure. He is enough.

Keep your life free from love of money (and other forms of contentment-stealing desires), and be content with what you have, for he has said, "I will never leave you nor forsake you." (Heb. 13:5)

Walk today with your more-than-enough God and Savior with your two feet whole.

"God Appoints People Who Do Disappoint -

– to point to a God who never disappoints." 

Some wisdom for the struggle from Ann Voskamp.

Love at First Sight

Fanny Crosby (1820-1915), prolific writer of gospel songs and hymns like "To God Be The Glory" and "Blessed Assurance," was blind.

When asked by a preacher if she was upset that she was never able to see. She said, "No."

When asked, "Why?"

She replied, "Because when I get to heaven, the first face that will ever gladden my sight will be that of my Savior."

Christianity & Brainwashing

Does Christianity believe in brainwashing? Of course! They (our brains, that is) are dirty!

I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. (Rom. 12:1-2, emphasis added)

IDOP Everyday

Yesterday was the International Day of Prayer for the Persecuted Church. We prayed yesterday (and will hopefully continue to do so!), but the reality of that persecution is faced today by so many around the world. Here's a brief video put out by Gospel for Asia that will give you a taste of what our persecuted family faces.



Remember those who are in prison, as though in prison with them, and those who are mistreated, since you also are in the body. (Hebrews 13:3)

"I Am Happy That You Failed"

From Voice of the Martyrs (sent to me by Chuck Barmore): 

Zhang Rongliang, one of the most prominent house church leaders in China, was sentenced in 2006 to seven and a half years in prison for using an illegal passport. But even as Christians pressured communist leaders to release Rongliang, he was building a ministry inside the prison.

"I am happy that you and others tried to arrange for my release, but in one way, I am happy that you failed,"

Rongliang told a VOM contact.

 "You almost made a big mistake. If you had been successful, there would be no church in that prison today." 

After his release on Aug. 31, Rongliang was immediately admitted to a hospital for 15 days. Doctors treated Rongliang's high blood pressure and diabetes.

Though imprisoned, the utter freedom of his freedom betrays our slavery and shames us. Lord, grant us such freedom in Christ that we will be happy for "failures" (or unanswered prayers) that serve Providential plans for Freedom.

Genesis 50:20 As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today.

Technology: Master or Servant?

Mouthwash Recommended

 
Walter Hooper is a trustee of the C.S. Lewis estate. He served as Lewis' personal secretary for a short time and knew Lewis quite well. He wrote the introduction to Present Concerns: A Compelling Collection of Timely, Journalistic Essays. The essays were written by Lewis and later compiled by Hooper. In the introduction, Hooper recounts the following exchange he had with Lewis:

"Who is Elizabeth Taylor?" asked C.S. Lewis. ...

"If you read the newspapers," I said to Lewis, "you would know who she is."

"Ah-h-h-h!" said Lewis playfully, "but that is how I keep myself 'unspotted from the world'."

He recommended that if I absolutely "must" read newspapers I have a frequent "mouthwash" with The Lord of the Rings or some other great book.

I read this quote on vacation awhile back and found one more reason to love C.S. Lewis! Funny how timely and relevant Lewis was and still is for not having read newspapers! If this was his opinion roughly a half a century ago in England, what would he say to us today in America?!

So much of what passes for "news" is not "newsworthy." When "news" becomes more a business than a service, it's bound to shoot itself in the foot. When the compulsion to gain a greater market share trumps the responsibility to inform the populace of real and newsworthy news, "(cheap) entertainment value" might rise, but news as a good and public service dies.

As you walk through this holiday season, you might have a little extra time on your hands here and there. Shut off the TV, close your internet browser, and sink your teeth into a good book -- like this or this (present Book of the Month) or this or this or this or this (or this, if with your kids) or this or this or this. It's a great way to wash the world off your teeth.

Axe Your Boasts

The Lord is most graciously helping me to see how absolutely nothing I am without Him, and helping me to keep little in my own eyes. ... The axe cannot boast of the trees it has cut down. It could do nothing but for the woodsman. He made it, he sharpened it, and he used it. The moment he throws it aside; it becomes only old iron.

(Samuel Brengle, as quoted in Spiritual Leadership by Oswald Sanders, 63)